Yeah. It rubs me the wrong way to hear jokes about being attacked at night being a good thing. This is exactly why even if I do turn out to be a trans dude I’ll still probably never interact with “the trans community.” I’ve never encountered a group of people less willing to discuss how gender dynamics actually play out for me in the world I’m living in. I’ve had MAGA coworkers who are significantly more accepting of my evolving gender expression than other trans people.