A bunch of people have already pointed out that, generally, most men are not simply looking for a fleshlight with legs attached, they’re looking to have a very enjoyable time with someone who is also having a very enjoyable time with them.

Personally, as a queer dude, nope, I could not do a serious relationship with a literally 0 sex drive guy, gal, any other gender / trans status, etc.

Even if you had a sex schedule that actually matched with hypothetically my sex drive, nope, I would know that you having sex with me is literally a chore for you.

Nope. Doesn’t work for me. I aim to please, and knowing that’s impossible for me to do with you?

I’d end up leaving, due to not being able to satisfy my need/desire to feel that I am satisfying someone else’s need/desire.

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The good thing here is that you are honest and upfront about your 0 sex drive.

You would probably, I would imagine, have the best luck finding a mate who also has literally 0 sex drive, and is also as upfront and honest about that as you are.

Also… I have a question.

So, you have 0 sex drive.

How would you view, or feel about, if you did have a long term partner, with a sex drive, and they just slept with other people?

Would you view that as cheating, intolerable, or would you not care at all, or maybe somewhere in the middle, or something more nuanced?

Like uh, say they live with you, come home from work to you every day, you two cuddle and snuggle and go on dates and figure out bills together… but they just take that sex schedule idea you’re proposing, and instead take those timeslots to uh, pencil in somebody else.

How would you fedl about that scenario, or something approximating it?

Would that be like “Great! More time for me to do me stuff!” or … not?