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Varyk@sh.itjust.works 13 hours agoIf it goes through, it goes, if it doesn’t it doesn’t.
If you’ve already upset her enough that she’s cut contact, she likely won’t respond either way.
And either way, you can let her get back to her life and try to become a positive experience in other people’s lives going forward.
IronBird@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
thankfully they live on other side of country, so we really should never run into each other again unless the fates deem it so.
it was kind of a “girl from highschool i had always wanted to ask out, but never had the confidence to”-scenario. childhood trauma from my time at that school made me remember it, and eventually her, so I looked her up…see how she was doing, noticed she was still single, figured I’d take my shot. let my emotions get the best of me and it i guess (really got to be cognizant of these acid flashbacks)…
Varyk@sh.itjust.works 13 hours ago
Now you know!
You took a shot, didn’t hit it’s done, somewhere in there is something you can use to positive effect in the future.
IronBird@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
lol for sure.
like reminding myself i’m almost 30, can’t be approaching woman like a highschooler. been out of the game too long i guess
Varyk@sh.itjust.works 13 hours ago
Yup. High school methods can be a rush, but boy can they be harmful.