Comment on apparently, the T button dosent exist for some people

• zeca@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  How is that ableist? I genuinely dont see it.

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  • _cryptagion@anarchist.nexus ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    your comparing somebody doing something at will and the resistance to it that they receive to being disabled, which is not voluntary. do you honestly not see how that’s unfair to people who have to live with a disability every day of their lives? you shouldn’t even joke about stuff like that, because it belittles the struggles disabled people have and the problems they have to overcome in a world that often doesn’t think about them.

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    • zeca@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I see what you mean now.

      The person you responded to at first, i think they played along with that comparison to argue that, even if it was a disability, being annoying doesnt justify bullying. They werent saying it is a disability, they were using another persons premise to argue that bullying isnt justified.

      I know some people that are annoying in a way that doesnt seem to be a choice, they have a natural way of behaving that annoys people. And sometimes, what seems to be a choice to be annoying is just manifestations of a persons natural characteristics. So I think we cant actually make a clear distinction between whats a voluntary behaviour and a natural uncensored behaviour. We should just learn to deal with people less aggressively.

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