There a free to play online game called Palia that’s pretty chill.

Not as farm intensive as stardew, but you do have a few plots to grow crops and you can refine them into jams and pickled goods, etc.

Can also cook your food into meals, give gifts to villagers to build up relationships, and each villager has a story and background to learn.

There is also mining, tree felling, plant foraging, animal hunting, fishing, etc.

It’s a first person 3D world, and I haven’t tried it with controller but I imagine it would be fine.

It’s very chill, there is pretty much no negatives for any action or inaction that you take.

Main storyline quests are not too bad either, there is a story to the world that develops as well.