Comment on How did easy access to Porn while growing up impacted Gen-Z ?
shawn1122@sh.itjust.works 2 days agoWe really need to distinguish between porn that displays harmful attitudes towards women and everything else. There are libraries of porn available on nline that display harmful attitudes towards women either through coercive acts or people in positions of power taking advantage of others. Not ALL porn is like that but the question is what are adolescents watching and how would we expect that to impact their perception of a healthy sexual relationship?
pmk@lemmy.sdf.org 1 day ago
Purely anecdotal, but the dominance/submission dynamic is something that many women seem to actually want. I have never steered things in that direction since it’s not my thing, but everyone I have been with has asked for some actions like that, being held down, light choking, some pain, etc. Remember how popular 50 shades was? It saddened me, like, “this is what mainstream women actually want”? It’s not what I want.