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Communication doesn’t need to be verbal - and I’m more talking about setting the precedent for communicating about pleasure as a practice. Being able to communicate about pleasure takes you a lot further in mutual pleasure than having a “trick”, yknow?

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Damage@feddit.it ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
Yeah well, you said to ask, while the actual point is “listen” (and “feel”), that is what I meant

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- apotheotic@beehaw.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  Well, even if the other person doesn’t communicate their answer verbally, you can ask verbally :) it is the most direct way to establish an open pathway for communication.
  
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  - Damage@feddit.it ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    Yeah my problem in the past has been that they may be embarrassed to answer or just not know what to ask for
    
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    apotheotic@beehaw.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    For sure, but that’s kinds the point in a way, you identify that communication is an issue and you can work on it :3
    
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