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sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks agoNeither.
Ask her to close her eyes.
(Probably does not really matter whether she does or doesn’t)
Using your finger, gently trace lines around the neck, jawline, down to the collar bone, around the breast, along the sternum, follow the bottom of the ribcage, cross to the hip… you get the idea.
Ideally, be somewhat unpredictable, teasing… labor of modulate the instensity of your own breath a bit.
Also obviously works better with lighter, or no clothing.
Think of this as maybe drawing arcane runes, casting a spell… tell a slightly different story every time.
Remember the wise word of Dr. Frank-N-Furter.
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krunklom@lemmy.zip 2 weeks ago
Incorrect.
What you need to do is just start violently punching the wall while screaming racial slurs with a plunger up your ass. Sploosh.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 weeks ago
I… have known a single couple, both of whom told me, separately, that they enjoyed, and I should try… ‘donkey punching’ … which is apparently smacking the uh, ‘recipient’, in the back of the head, right as climax is about to occur, because apparently this causes a more intense contraction/climax.
Personally, that sounds completely fucking insane to me, but apparently, different strokes for different folks?
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donkey_punch
oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 weeks ago
That would need at lot of communication and safety to both see if someone or somemany is/are okay with it and to make sure it doesn’t result in severe damage.
Don’t just do it without asking and making sure to practise gently first, and set up other safety precautions, readers of this thread.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 weeks ago
Hence why my opinion of being told about that was ‘that sounds completely fucking insane’.
Like… fuck, man.
Yeah, beyond the rather obvious ‘never even consider this without enthusiastic consent’…
You probably should just never do this.
I know people can be and into varying kinds and degrees of pain during the hanky panky… BUT…
It would extremely easy for someone of… really just slightly average strength for an average young male athlete… to punch someone, in the back of the head or upper neck… with enough force that you could cause serious brain damage, break their neck, fuck them up for life, potentially even kill them.
Like if you can’t tell, I’m more into the sensual stuff in the bedroom, maybe a bit of consented restraint…
… but I also have a black belt.
And … this idea terrifies me, any real martial arts competition I have ever even heard of would disqualify you from the match, and probably ban you for life for intentionally punching someone in the back of the head.
Its way too fucking dangerous.