Completely agree. Communication is the basis of all good relationships and interaction, especially intimate interaction.
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apotheotic@beehaw.org 4 weeks ago
Better yet, ask them what feels good, and establish communication of pleasure. Your partner, regardless of genitals, will have a better time, and so will you!
oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
Damage@feddit.it 3 weeks ago
That only works if they actually answer. Sometimes it’s just easier to gauge reactions.
Sometimes they can’t talk coherently *wink wink*
apotheotic@beehaw.org 3 weeks ago
Communication doesn’t need to be verbal - and I’m more talking about setting the precedent for communicating about pleasure as a practice. Being able to communicate about pleasure takes you a lot further in mutual pleasure than having a “trick”, yknow?
Damage@feddit.it 3 weeks ago
Yeah well, you said to ask, while the actual point is “listen” (and “feel”), that is what I meant
apotheotic@beehaw.org 3 weeks ago
Well, even if the other person doesn’t communicate their answer verbally, you can ask verbally :) it is the most direct way to establish an open pathway for communication.