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LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 6 days ago
Unlike movies/tv portray it, sex isn’t clean. If people had sex and someone walked in after, the room absolutely will smell like sex as well. PH levels change, sweat is everywhere, and heart rates should very much be elevated unless both parties are extremely fit and are taking things slow. The moments made during sex aren’t movements made when doing daily activities either, so it engages muscles that people wouldn’t normally use, which can cause someone to have to work harder.
At the end of the day, the only reason people don’t view sex as disgusting is because we find pleasures in it. There are fluids leaking from multiple orphaces and being swapped and dripping all over anything you encounter. If someone said they spit, sweat, and bled on your sheets people would say what the fuck, put them in the wash… Yet some people are perfectly fine just going to sleep in it after, which to each their own.
If it’s your first partner, as for the blood… that day will come eventually. Whether it’s I thought my period was over, it hadn’t started yet, or whatever it is. It will end up happening eventually. It isn’t gross, it is just blood but it’s something that all parties should be prepared for if they are mature enough to have sex in my opinion. It will get on both parties, and will get on the sheets. Cold water will get it out of the sheets just like clothing. If you have a good partner you’ll do your own preferences clean up seperate or together throw the sheets in the wash and go on with your night.
Sorry if that’s to much information, I had a couple partners in my 20s who told me they had ex boyfriends that acted like pricks about such, which just tells me they were immature. So I figure it’s best to just have discussions with your partners to avoid any pricks in the world.
Anyways, it’s normal to sweat.