Comment on I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life?
TheFunkyMonk@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
They don’t see introversion and solitude as self caring, but as depression, being an ass and being antisocial.
As an introverted person, I really don’t think this is true. I’m very open about being introverted and needing to leave when I need my battery is depleted or turning things down when I need solo time, and I’m not sure I’ve ever experienced a negative or rude reaction from it. You already sound pretty misanthropic; I’d wager the people you’re having negative interactions with are picking up on that rather than your introversion.
vestmoria@linux.community 4 weeks ago
I don’t know, my soon to be former workplace is like a primary school: established coworkers settle in, start yelling, are obnoxious, care about ludicrously stupid stuff I simply don’t care about. This goes on for 30 minutes. every day.
I’m trapped: if I leave for these 30 minutes they go find me to ask what am I doing, usually reading something interesting on my smartphone without them yapping.
Gossiping has already started at this point.
To avoid this I’ve settled for reading what interests me together with them which is not as good as it sounds but apparently placates them.
I still don’t understand how adults can behave so childish.