There’s nothing wrong with pressuring your loved ones a bit - especially as a parent. I read it in a loving, paternal tone rather than a demanding, controlling one. Of course, if it was literal it’d be problematic.

The guy is complaining about not being able to find girls - so I wouldn’t read too much into it either.

Well, I don’t see the flags anyway. We don’t know these two people or what their relationship is like.