Hey, now. No need to be judgy, friend. In English, that’s generally phrased as “fucking someone over”, btw.

FWIW, the puritanical origins of such demonizing non-reproductive sex acts should be beneath us as a species, at this late-stage (eg. “sodomy”, according to many laws across the globe, is defined as anything other than missionary position, incl. oral and manual stimulation — because the Church/Temple/etc. needs fresh blood and butts in seats, not independent happiness & fulfillment that said religious institution doesn’t have their hand on the tap of…)