Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?
IWW4@lemmy.zip 10 months ago
13 years is a significant age gap for someone in their mid twenties.
I am certain he wants to have sex with you, wether or not he is thinking about a long term relationship, I have no insights.
It could be that he is not thinking about that. You are pretty vague on when you are relocating, so maybe he thinks that if the two of you work out, than you will stay.
Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 10 months ago
there seems to be alot of these posts on reddit too, the age gaps are significant, like 10-17years+, and always ends up being in an abusive situation.
IWW4@lemmy.zip 10 months ago
Yeah.
When you are 30+ a 10+ age gap is not as significant.
Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 10 months ago
i knew a former co-worker in another job, who was 17year old her senior, granted she was 28-29 at the time. and of course the mom was pissed, because the woman told me the mom said the guy was ALMOST as old as she was.(the mom had her kids very young). i dint push anything, but he doesnt seem like he was controlling to her.