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protist@mander.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

“Oh, you have goal X? Well that’s wrong - you should have goal Y, and here is how I got there” is not an effective way to offer advice to anyone"

Where did you even get this? No one said this

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Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
I think this is copy/paste from his alpha subscription welcome kit.

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- protist@mander.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  He’s saying this is the good guys’ approach, it seems, which I disagree with.
  
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Katana314@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
I mean, just to put in basic terms, would you agree most young men should aim to be kingpin of their own casino, and have women falling over themselves to lick their jeans? And that anything less than that is a failure?

I’d imagine you don’t. And by that, you’re rejecting their goals. If your politics offers to people “Here’s how everyone can make a livable wage”, you’re pushing a much “meeker” goal on them than their ego is shooting for.

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