@Skullgrid @outhouseperilous "If dad, why cum based?"
Isn't a sentence I expected to read today but you're right
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outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks agoWho tf needs a dad specifically? A good parent is a good parent. Adequate adulting is adequate adulting.
If dad, why cum based? The point of having a dad around isnt that he creampies ypur mom from time to time; it’s the fact hes a parent.
If cum based, why limit to one? Many cultures have done shit where kids are raised by all the men mom was fucking through the entire pregnancy.
@Skullgrid @outhouseperilous "If dad, why cum based?"
Isn't a sentence I expected to read today but you're right
You’re welcome.
Skullgrid@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
yeah, and how many of those guys raised this kid? Oh wait.
Are YOU a parent? Because I am, and let me tell you, with TWO people it’s fucking exhausting, let alone doing it alone.
Again, the point is that 1) The daughter has no sense of identity except for who her dad might be, and she’s going to base her opinion and goals based on whoever he turns out to be, which is weak as shit, and 2) If you’re going to fuck around, at least be a responsible adult about it, which the mother was not. They had the pill and condoms back then, use them for fucks sake.
outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
Seems like you’re projecting some wound here.
Skullgrid@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
No, I never ended up on an island to try to figure out if the woman I banged (and turned out fucked a bunch of other dudes right before/after) gave birth to my daughter or if it was one of the other guys.
outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
I don’t see the problem with that. Depending on what ‘island’ means, that could be a really nice time. Like, even if its a ‘we must find water’ situation, someone i have fond (if blurry) memories and a little intimacy with is a plus. If it’s a luxury island, i probably want someone confirmed cute around.
but the idea of her being ‘yours’ is kinda weird, possessive; especially if you didn’t do the work of making the person.