OK, so you think the opposite is true? It’s feminist for a woman to base her identity on who her father is? That women shouldn’t bother with any kind of birth control/family planning despite banging multiple people within a timeframe that would lead her to raise a child without understanding who the dad could be?
Because fuck it, we shouldn’t expect anything from women, right?
Many cultures have done shit where kids are raised by all the men mom was fucking through the entire pregnancy.
yeah, and how many of those guys raised this kid? Oh wait.
Who tf needs a dad specifically? A good parent is a good parent.
Are YOU a parent? Because I am, and let me tell you, with TWO people it’s fucking exhausting, let alone doing it alone.
Again, the point is that 1) The daughter has no sense of identity except for who her dad might be, and she’s going to base her opinion and goals based on whoever he turns out to be, which is weak as shit, and 2) If you’re going to fuck around, at least be a responsible adult about it, which the mother was not. They had the pill and condoms back then, use them for fucks sake.
Skullgrid@lemmy.world 3 months ago
OK, so you think the opposite is true? It’s feminist for a woman to base her identity on who her father is? That women shouldn’t bother with any kind of birth control/family planning despite banging multiple people within a timeframe that would lead her to raise a child without understanding who the dad could be?
Because fuck it, we shouldn’t expect anything from women, right?
outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 months ago
Who tf needs a dad specifically? A good parent is a good parent. Adequate adulting is adequate adulting.
If dad, why cum based? The point of having a dad around isnt that he creampies ypur mom from time to time; it’s the fact hes a parent.
If cum based, why limit to one? Many cultures have done shit where kids are raised by all the men mom was fucking through the entire pregnancy.
Skullgrid@lemmy.world 3 months ago
yeah, and how many of those guys raised this kid? Oh wait.
Are YOU a parent? Because I am, and let me tell you, with TWO people it’s fucking exhausting, let alone doing it alone.
Again, the point is that 1) The daughter has no sense of identity except for who her dad might be, and she’s going to base her opinion and goals based on whoever he turns out to be, which is weak as shit, and 2) If you’re going to fuck around, at least be a responsible adult about it, which the mother was not. They had the pill and condoms back then, use them for fucks sake.
outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 months ago
Seems like you’re projecting some wound here.
darth_tiktaalik@nerdica.net 3 months ago
@Skullgrid @outhouseperilous "If dad, why cum based?"
Isn't a sentence I expected to read today but you're right
outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 months ago
You’re welcome.