Comment on What is wrong with being "Black Pilled"?
throwawaycardboard@piefed.world 21 hours agoOnce you have been around enough rejections you will know it's better not to feed those emotions.
Comment on What is wrong with being "Black Pilled"?
throwawaycardboard@piefed.world 21 hours agoOnce you have been around enough rejections you will know it's better not to feed those emotions.
adespoton@lemmy.ca 15 hours ago
I wholeheartedly agree.
There are better emotions to feed, and they don’t tend to result in rejection.
“Black pill” is a different thing from not dating.
I never dated, just spent time with people who shared my interests. Eventually, I and one of the people who I shared interests with realized that we were often doing so exclusive of other people.
We essentially went from just living our lives to everyone seeing us as a couple, eventually us included.
Pursuing dating for the emotional high will let you down every time. Being real about who you are and what drives you, and learning to have healthy give and take relationships that don’t involve unrealistic expectations means you’ll end up with a more fulfilling life.