I do consider myself greysexual now. It’s weird being greysexual, 'cause you think you can relate to your allowsexual friends, but then they won’t stop wanting a grilfriend, to the point that they will put themselves in life’s risk for some chance. One even fell for some romance scams (didn’t help that he was a manipulative pathological liar himself).
It’s so weird and scary that they could just not focus on something else. Meanwhile, I can forget about that and focus on a hobby or local politics or something.
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 3 weeks ago
I do consider myself greysexual now. It’s weird being greysexual, 'cause you think you can relate to your allowsexual friends, but then they won’t stop wanting a grilfriend, to the point that they will put themselves in life’s risk for some chance. One even fell for some romance scams (didn’t help that he was a manipulative pathological liar himself).
It’s so weird and scary that they could just not focus on something else. Meanwhile, I can forget about that and focus on a hobby or local politics or something.
goofystench@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
i think the term is allosexual but its pretty funny you said allowsexual… when was it you realized? i realized i was ace at 21. im 25 now
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 3 weeks ago
I think I was always on the ace spectrum, but I found out probably around 15-ish. (I’m 29 now).
Although, I can’t call myself fully ace, but I did treat myself that way in high school (which I regret). Hence, the greysexual label.