Comment on Partying Introvert Style đ
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world â¨11⊠â¨months⊠agoDude, youâre reading way more into a meme than there is in it. The pic doesnât say anything about âfeeling anxious at the mere mention of socializingâ.
Itâs just about having fun alone with a pizza and cats, which you donât have to have anxiety to prefer over a crowd of people.
Source: was an introvert since puberty and social anxiety is a lot more recently. Pre-anxiety me wouldnât have been anxious about people but would have found this kind of party preferable a lot of the time because people are exhausting when youâre an introvert.
use such an excuse to cover just their trait. They donât let a trait run their life.
Again, reading way too much into it while also being a bit of a judgmental and ableist ass đ¤ˇ
Smoogs@lemmy.world â¨11⊠â¨months⊠ago
and you sit there posting this shit for up votes? Yeah donât fall off that high horseâŚ
when youâre misusing it as a âmemeâ to then miseducate others on what social anxiety is vs introvert personality trait. Iâve seen people shirk off their social anxiety and not get help for it and think itâs a cute âintrovertâ joke they tell everyone around them. Meanwhile red flags and thrusting assholishness everywhere. Ghosting- âTee hee introvert arenât I cute?â Lashing out and then leaving a train wreck of a party behind âoh this is exhausting. Iâm going home cuz such an introvert!â Making their friends worry about them so they can feel important but not let anyone know they are ok âoh you know me Iâm just an introvert so I had to bailâ
Youâre not helping people with social anxiety and cluster related disorders by mushing the terms together just for updoots. Youâre making it worse. Itâs not worth your internet fame and as far as I care for your updoot value for it, think again.
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world â¨11⊠â¨months⊠ago
Just stop talking out your ass about things you clearly know nothing about. You clearly donât understand introversion OR anxiety and are lecturing a very self-analytic introvert with social anxiety.
The only one making anything worse is you thinking that overwhelmed people needing to temporarily withdraw from you and/or others are just using âexcusesâ to shirk some imagined ability to accommodate you.
Joking about your issues in a self-deprecating way like in the OP (which I wasnât the one who posted, not that it should matter) is a way of cheering yourself up by seeing the light side of it and/or feeling less alone by being reminded that other people are going through similar things and are similarly misunderstood.
In the end, though, itâs just a harmlessly fun relatable meme đ¤ˇ
Smoogs@lemmy.world â¨11⊠â¨months⊠ago
Look at you cry now cuz you didnât get your upvote.
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world â¨11⊠â¨months⊠ago
Iâm not calling you out for upvotes, Iâm calling you out because youâre being an arrogantly wrong and trying to paint ME as the problematic ones for not feeling sorry for how inconvenient the introversion and anxiety of others is to you.
Nice try doing the âI have no counterargument so Iâm just gonna pretend that the other guy is being emotional for internet points as if that would have made me right about anythingâ gambit, but this ainât my first rodeo.