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inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 4 days ago
Once you hit 30 the age gap stops being creepy and becomes a personal life choice. If you were 41 and she was 20, that would be a massive red flag. But she isn’t a young adult anymore, but presumably someone established in who they are and what they want.
If what she wants is you, congrats!
wulrus@lemmy.world 4 days ago
Or 50 and 29 - eww
inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 4 days ago
Oh yes, without a doubt. What truly matters is equal power dynamics, I’d just generally speaking saying most 30s have a few relationships under their belt, know who they are and what they want.
But even that can go yuck sooooo quick. Like with a 30 and 80 year old, clearly one side has a fetish.
Ledericas@lemm.ee 3 days ago
There was quite a few articles of a young guy chasing after 70+years old, definitely a fetish of sorts