Comment on buddy of mine is in a horrible mood

• nesc@lemmy.cafe ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  I know what the word niche means, it doesn’t in any way or other words mean ‘not normal’.

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  • Geth@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    I don’t know how to paint it more clearly for you. You are talking about interests that are out of the ordinary, not typical for the average population, obscure by definition, you know… niche. Having obscure interests is relatively common in the grand scheme of things but still not typical of the average person on the street. Which makes it not normal. I would go so far as to call it neurodivergent, since it’s most probably the cause of the said interests.

    I do prefer abnormality in my life, probably everyone that managed to get themselves on lemmy does, but we are not a representation of the general population, we are but a niche.

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    • nesc@lemmy.cafe ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      You can be unique, while being normal. Sorry, but visiting a forum doesn’t make you ‘not normal’ in any meaningful way.

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      • Geth@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        I guess we’re going into the definition of normality. To me this just means average, conventional, within certain limits. I would bet my ass most users of this simple forum are not average people, just based on the friction of the sign-up process alone.

        And being unique while being normal is another oximoron from you. Either you are unique or you are average, you can’t be both.

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