Also why I throw the whole thing out and just call us all something else.

true equality would either be just ‘+’, without any letters, or including every letter, which seems impossible.

or like you said, something completely else. I personally like [please don’t kill me] ‘alphabet people’. I understand that rightoids use this term as an insult so it isn’t usable, which is a shame, because apart from its negative connotation it has a few nice upsides:

• sexualities/genders are being abbreviated by single letters already and since the alphabet contains all letters, everyone is included

-‘people’ is completely neutral towards everyone as well