Comment on What kind of upbringing makes an incel?
someacnt@sopuli.xyz 8 months agoI actually recall talking with some girls. I know it’s anecdotal, but many of them explicitly said that they prefer appearance to personality. Some girls even said height-elevating shoes is what they hate the most. (And they care a lot about height)
iheartneopets@lemm.ee 8 months ago
How old were they, by chance? Most women I know are old enough to have learned that looks are not everything. I’m sure men learn the same as they mature. Of course, there are assholes everywhere, which is why personality is so important.
If you find someone you like and they have a good personality, hold onto them tight. It’s worth so much more. Lust fades, love you grow together lasts and lasts.
someacnt@sopuli.xyz 8 months ago
They were 19 years old IIRC.