Comment on i can’t tell if this is edginess or mental illness? i hope she’s doing okay

• Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Oh no I’m sorry to hear that :( And I’m guessing my story here nudged you to reach out, I’m sorry. And that’s really shitty. How long ago was it that you last spoke?

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  • alexsystem@lemmings.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    February or earlier for sure

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    • Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      For what it’s worth, I was also blocked at a time in my saga. And might have even been the blocker once. I don’t think it’s the healthiest kind of relationship to have with someone lol. Especially with strong feelings involved. All that I can say worked in my situation was time apart and maybe a change in mindset since then too.

      But I mean, sometimes people just suck too and are just bullies or bigots. And it’s admirable that you’re worried about her mental state here when you could probably still do with some healing yourself too. If it’s eating you up, I used to find that the best escape from this sort of spiralling out is to lose myself in a complicated RPG.

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