Comment on I’m in love but haters say my husband must be gay or have a fat fetish

• iamtanmay@wolfballs.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I am doubtful of that. Its what the wokesters say -beauty is a 'cultural' concept. I think sex is too biologically deep and is pure instinct

  There are all kinds of sex fetishes, right ? Some people like to be choked to death or cut themselves. Maybe fatty obsession is one of those things

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  • Monarque@wolfballs.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I think culture can somewhat influence it. But it influences it like this:

    7 in 10 Brazilian guys prefer big butts over big breasts.

    ... But 7 in 10 Russian men prefer big breasts over big butts!

    (And both parties like both. They just have a preference.)

    There's nothing that turns ugliness into beauty and vice versa.

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    • iamtanmay@wolfballs.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Its DNA. Brazillians have a large african population from the slave trade. African men like 'huge' obese women. Why ? Starvation was rampant in Africa. Most Africans were skin and bones till recently.

      Russians prefer slender girls. If boobs or butts are over a certain size, the girl is considered fat. My African friends are all with overweight girls in their 40s, who have given birth multiple times. The guys are in their 20s. They told me their fantasies

      BTW, I live in a slavic country with a large population of Russians/Ukrainians/Belarusians. All their girls try to stay super slim. African ladies not so much, lol

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      • Monarque@wolfballs.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Russians prefer slender girls. If boobs or butts are over a certain size, the girl is considered fat. My African friends are all with overweight girls in their 40s, who have given birth multiple times. The guys are in their 20s. They told me their fantasies

        I've basically also seen this happening around the USA here & there in the black community as well. Of course, not always, and there is a whole bunch of black men who prefer more of just the thicc girls, not so much the literally just fat ones. But that certainly does exist.

        Perhaps it is more common than we think but they just do not like to tell us about that.

        Reminds me of the Venus of Willendorf.

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        I think there's a lot of ways that you can explain this phenomenon.

        BTW, I live in a slavic country with a large population of Russians/Ukrainians/Belarusians. All their girls try to stay super slim. African ladies not so much, lol

        I think girls try to look good based off of the standards that they can most easily adapt to.

        They play to their own strengths.

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