Not all workplaces are like this but a large majority are. People suck at great management.

On a specific to your career note, my wife has been an RN for decades at this point, 10 years at a local hospital. Management was trash there. Her co-workers were great but they made the job suck. They blamed the C-suite (yay, capitalism). What really got her was that she never felt backed by management and when a patient would outright lie, they’d back the patient every time. She left the hospital system to work for a private endo/gastro clinic and she said she should have made that decision years prior. She gets paid less than she would at a hospital but she happy and loves her coworkers and the docs that own the practice. They’ve won multiple awards and are top in the region.

Get the hell out of the hospital and find a great private practice. They’re out there and always looking for great nurses.

Good luck friend.