Comment on How do people develop feelings for someone?
jbrains@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
I just don’t know how to (for lack of a better word) make others see me for more than just a friend.
You don’t. It’s complex and subtle and annoying. 😉
You don’t turn someone who doesn’t love you into some who does. You keep looking until you find a person who was already going to love you. And there are many, even when it doesn’t seem like there are. And it takes a maddeningly long time for some folks. It did for me.
throwawaysalami@lemm.ee 2 weeks ago
What about if you don’t want anything too serious?
jbrains@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Nothing wrong with that, but then what is your actual challenge here?
throwawaysalami@lemm.ee 2 weeks ago
I don’t know, that’s a good question. How to convey that to the other person, I guess?
jbrains@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
It’s not clear to me yet what you want: not too serious, but more than friends, so… sex?