Comment on How do people develop feelings for someone?
deegeese@sopuli.xyz 5 days agoThanks for clarifying.
In general people don’t try to cultivate romantic interest, it needs to arise naturally from desire.
If they are interested in someone romantically, then they pursue that person.
Ask out your crushes instead of trying to force a crush on someone you’re not attracted to.
throwawaysalami@lemm.ee 5 days ago
So you just, ask them out? Do you need to behave any differently as you would with a friend?
deegeese@sopuli.xyz 5 days ago
You gotta flirt first before you ask someone out.
throwawaysalami@lemm.ee 5 days ago
Do you have to be friends first before you flirt? (I feel like a damn toddler or alien, asking these questions. 😅)
deegeese@sopuli.xyz 5 days ago
Flirting is just friendly chatting. You can flirt with strangers, you just have to back off if it’s clear they’re not interested.