Comment on How do people develop feelings for someone?

deegeese@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

• throwawaysalami@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Have you ever experienced sexual attraction? Yeah, like a ton actually. Sorry I forgot to mention I do in fact develop feelings for people.

  Edit: I added it to the description now

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  • deegeese@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Thanks for clarifying.

    In general people don’t try to cultivate romantic interest, it needs to arise naturally from desire.

    If they are interested in someone romantically, then they pursue that person.

    Ask out your crushes instead of trying to force a crush on someone you’re not attracted to.

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    • throwawaysalami@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      Ask out your crushes instead of trying to force a crush on someone you’re not attracted to.

      So you just, ask them out? Do you need to behave any differently as you would with a friend?

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      • deegeese@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        You gotta flirt first before you ask someone out.

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