Comment on Appreciate the effort, but I can't handle my own shit. much less a extrovert instigating a million things to do on top of all that.

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Venus_Ziegenfalle@feddit.org ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

I disagree for the following reasons:

An overwhelming majority of people are ambiverts, as in a mix of both to varying degrees.

Also extroverts and other, mostly extroverted people can (and mostly do) hang out with other extroverts, manufacturing and stockpiling emotional energy freely without the help of introverts.

Also even someone who is a complete introvert doesn’t have to feel “drained” from social interactions. Some can handle them perfectly well but just don’t need them.

Lastly introverts are free to choose not spending time with extroverts. It takes two to tango.

So taking all this into consideration I think your thesis is really just your lived experience that you’re projecting onto society. Feeling excessively drained by social inceractions is often an indication of underlying mental struggles rather than being an introvert. That’s not better or worse but it is different. It’s not necessary to like being around people but a healthy adult should have enough “emotional energy” available to get through a typical day.

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