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webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 6 days ago
Never understood this notion that its one party fucking the other.
It takes two to tango, If the relationship is consensual you are fucking eachother.
Or maybe its something weird and some sort of consensual voyeurism. People are entitled to their kinks.
gon@lemm.ee 6 days ago
I’ve read about this before, actually… I don’t remember the exact wording, but it was something like that the patriarchy requires everything that a man does to hold authority over a woman, so penetration is perceived and understood as a form of domination over the one who is penetrated. The woman — read the one who is penetrated, as in patriarchy a man cannot be penetrated — has no agency in sex, so if you’re being penetrated you are not “having sex,” you are “being fucked” by someone else.