Comment on am i responsible if i hurt someone by leaving them after "making" them fall in love with me?

gloktawasright@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

You are if you were manipulating them. If you weren’t honest with them about your feelings and intentions, or if you intentionally did things to make them feel a certain way so you could get what you wanted. Or if there was a significant disparity of power between you two such as with large age gaps, particularly at younger ages, or with significant differences is wealth or within other constructed power dynamics such as a workplace.

If you were open and honest both with your words and through your actions, and there was no significant power disparity, then it was their choice to set the boundaries that they did, and to accept the consequences of the relationship they chose.

I think that’s the most I can say without more details.

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