You have to stop and think about what is really sexy.

Is it sexy when someone pretends to be into you? Most people would agree not.

A person 20 years younger than you, are they really attracted to you? Do they really know you? Do they really want to be with YOU?

Once sex becomes about the intimate connection and not just the physical bumpin uglies, it changes.

That said, looking at porn and fantasizing you can pretend to be any age you want. Thus, you may find yourself thinking you are not attracted to people your own age if you are only looking at porn of the “hottest” people.