1. find girl who is mutually attracted to you. Proceed to step 2.
2. date and stuff. Listen. Collaborate. Trust. Bask in the glory that is romance.
3. identify and implement love languages.
4. by now you damn well better have figured out what she likes and doesn’t and with this knowledge you have your answer.

And chocolate. Also, she should be doing these steps in parallel with you, equally. You also deserve to be shown love without saying it. If she doesn’t, dump her and return to step 1.

Source: lesbians