Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene?
kat@orbi.camp 6 days agoNot really, I would take it at face value. Unless the person sent some really strong signals. And even then I would just do the conclusion that requires the least assumptions, which is just friend vibes.
But you can still be explicit afte the fact tho. I get is hard tho, since you have to be pretty vulnerable.
saltesc@lemmy.world 6 days ago
Eh, just say, “I’m trying to flirt with you. How’s it doing?”
And if she laughs, you’re in. If she does squirmy-squirm face, “Well, I had to try. Now let’s enjoy this awkward silence together.” And stare at the ground silently, but for no more than three seconds.
kat@orbi.camp 6 days ago
Never more than 3 seconds. Listen up guys, most important part!
saltesc@lemmy.world 5 days ago
Well, then it actually is awkward.