I never said it wasn’t me. But the anon isn’t. The way messages there work is you say something in a private exchange, and that only becomes visible when the person you sent it to responds. The response is mine, but the anonymous inquiry isn’t.

I use that to explain my perspective. I don’t refer to myself there as if it’s not me it’s talking about (why would anyone who has read it get the impression I do). I’m not sure why “obsessive” is the first word that comes to peoples’ minds (or why others get off the hook), what I deal with simply has an exhausting persistence and I wonder when it will end.