Aww, I am so sorry to say this but your post is just littered with red flags. Sis, he isn't hard to argue with, he just doesn't care what you think. I would say that making yourself informed about the specifics of Joe Rogan matters more than his view count going up by 1. But frankly, you aren't going to like anything. Since your husband knows you won't approve (Because Rogan is a bigoted pig), THAT is why he is defensive and hard to argue with.

Honestly, I think you need to take a few steps back and really think about what you are asking. If your husband is a fan and regular listener to a source you are so adamant against, that even giving him a view is a concern, then do you and your husband have the same values?