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That’s definitely not what they said, and I don’t see how you could read it that way except if you wanted to find something to complain about. There are much more meaningful battles to be fought than calling strangers on the internet bad parents.

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dwindling7373@feddit.it ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

That’s definitely not what they said

I said I would react to getting such messadge from my child reflecting on the possible mistakes I made in raising them.

They said that’s not how it works.

I said education is a thing (implying therefore that parenting do actually play a role).

I had no idea people would get so mad at this, it’s quite interesting. Do you guys all have terrible kids and are all playing a choral defense? I never said it’s easy to be a parent or that you could (or shoud) mold them into whatever you want. But you surely are not infallible and you can clearly track most people attitude and behaviour back to the parentig style and the example they’ve met in the household.

Am I missing something? Is pedagogy being redifined from the ground up and a parent is but a feeding tool?

(If I sounded smug is partially because my mother was constantly praising me growing up).

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