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FMT99@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
If it makes you (both) happy, just don’t overanalyze it. You can always dig to a deeper “why”, but what does it matter? If you really want to know, ask yourself (of course hypothetically) “if I left my husband afterwards, would I regret that I had it done?”
That said, something you should absolutely analyze in detail are the risks and physical discomfort and see if you’re OK with that.