SmoothSurfer

@SmoothSurfer@lemm.ee

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨AITA (25f) for telling my sister (29f) that if she wants to come visit me, her children need to follow my rules?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago⁩:

  It doesn’t matter whether her parenting is true or you were same when you were young. This is your house, those are your possessions; you can do whatever the fuck you want with them, and tell others how to use them or dont use them. So you are not the asshole, indeed your sister seem to be the asshole with still coming to your house like a barfaced even though you are not getting on well with her children.

  But if you say that you don’t want them anymore if they don’t obey your rules she is probably going to piss off considering her barefacedness.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨AITA for thinking my partner being obese is not a valid excuse to not get a job?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago⁩:

  You are totally right to request from them to work. But it is also reasonable that they don’t want to be seen as fat.

  You are partners and you should empathize for each other. Meaning you should find a middle ground to solve this.

  My recommendation is to set a deadline for them to lose weight and also it would be supportive for them if you also join the diet(if you don’t need to lose weight, a diet focuses more on healthy eating) with them.

  You are not the asshole for sure, but also don’t forget you both are partners, should be caring for each other. I am saying this because this struggle may damage your relationship real bad, just try to find middle ground.