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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why does most religion talk about their GOD being male? Especially Christains and Muslims. Is there a prominent female god that as big as the other two that I am missing?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  The major Abrahamic religions have the same root and have had a heavy influence on most of the world. This is largely due to the Roman empire and it’s successors adopting and spreading Christianity in Europe and the Muslim caliphates spreading Islam through the Middle East and Africa.

  Further east, Hinduism is the largest polytheistic religion and features a number of prominent goddesses. Though Hinduism has a lot of variety and the exact deities and their genders change depending on the adherents.

  Buddhism, Taoism, and Confucianism don’t really focus on any deities.

  Those are the most widespread religions, many others were eradicated or sidelined by European imperialism. Out of those left, many are animist religions, believing in spirits that can be a variety of genders.

  Some classical polytheistic religions are still practiced today. They usually have some major goddesses in the mix.

  If you go back to ancient Mesopotamia, Inanna/Ishtar is the head of her pantheon.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why do people think it’s selfish when I don’t get them things/ask about them?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  The “how are you” exchange is really just a conversation starter, a way for either one of you to talk about something that is on your mind. If you don’t reciprocate that, most people will just assume you don’t want to talk to them.

  In general, if you just respond and don’t make any effort to ask questions or keep the conversation going, people will assume you don’t want to talk to them. You aren’t obligated to respond, but they are also not obligated to continue talking to someone who is clearly uninterested in talking to the .

  So I guess the question is: Why do you want to talk to people if you aren’t interested in them at all?

  If you’re looking for support and friendship, that is a 2-way street that requires you to support and care about them as well. Otherwise the other person can feel like you are just using them.

  If you just feel that this is something you need to do to not feel like a failure, that’s different. It’s not a failure to struggle with something, even if it seems everyone else just “gets it”. It’s just human. You might be happier with more socializing, but you are fine and perfectly acceptable without it.

  All that said, depression is also a liar. It will tell you that people don’t like you or at least don’t care. It will cherry-pick bad memories to drive a wedge between you and others to feed itself.

  I hope at least some of this helps

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why do so many UK electrical sockets have an on/off switch next to them?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Not just Americans. You won’t even commonly see them in mainland Europe

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Some things don't belong in a salad⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Would you put whipped cream on jello/jelly? That’s also dairy and features heavily in dessert. Cream cheese is used to make some icing, cheese cake is basically a brick of sweetened cream cheese. So cream cheese also shows up in desserts.

  So the person who came up with it was just familiar with how desserts work.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Some things don't belong in a salad⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Salad doesn’t mean vegetables. Salad is a dish made of a mixture of discrete pieces. See other things like potato salad, macaroni salad, tuna salad, antipasto salad, caprese salad, etc. You’re going to have a lot of food hangups if this bothers you.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Some things don't belong in a salad⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Very few would include all of the things listed above and I’ve never actually seen veggies in one.

  The one my family makes is just a dessert that’s primarily jello with a thin layer of cream cheese and pretzels. Has a nice combo of salty and sweet.

  Not sure why people are so grossed out by that, what’s wrong with it?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Living⁩ ⁨⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  For me, they manage to trigger the “SNAKE!” and “SPIDER!” panic responses simultaneously. The rational part of my brain likes them, the instinctual part tells me to smash it with a rock

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Damnatory Arbitration⁩ ⁨⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  The EEA shows up in the list of places it does not apply. They worded it strangely, first calling out the US as a place where it does apply. Then they change it up and say it also applies to anywhere not on this specific list of places