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Original Title: [George Chesterton] “A Tottenham fan is not just supporting a club, he is entering a long-term relationship with hope deprivation, public humiliation and the occasional burst of beauty designed purely to keep the bond alive,” explains Alistair MacCallum, a Spurs season-ticket holder of 40 years.
You would have more luck finding beauty in Mordor than the lilywhite half of north London at the moment.
Entering the precincts on Sunday are Nottingham Forest, who are placed just one point and one league position below Tottenham. Although an unexpectedly respectable draw with Liverpool and a victory in the second leg of their Champion League tie over Atlético Madrid has raised spirits off the abyssal plain, a couple of decent results still manages to feed the Spurs “it’s the hope that kills you” narrative.
For months Spurs had contrived to get worse and worse, but what effect has the threat of relegation had on their angst-ridden supporters?
“I put the phrase ‘define emotional abuse in the context of being a Tottenham fan’ through ChatGPT and it didn’t tell me anything I didn’t already know,” adds MacCallum
‘We are a big joke club’
“I don’t like people feeling sorry for me,” says Matt Bush. “I’d almost rather people abuse us. It’s this new kind of pity for us that I absolutely hate.
“An Arsenal-supporting colleague saw me come into the office and he just looked down. I said, “Come on, just give it to me” and he said: ‘I’m sorry but I can’t do it to you.’ And that’s worse. We are a big joke club. There’s no pride in it anymore.”