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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/katawwaa on 2023-10-07 02:31:41.

Hi everyone! I’m new here… Just wanted to share the most humiliating date story ever lol. If you could call it a date… I’ll try to keep the story as short as I can.

I (23F) met a guy (23M) super recently and we hit it off immediately. Our vibes, interests, and personalities clicked. I am normally an extremely meticulous, thoughtful person and I don’t do ANYTHING crazy. This guy brought out the 16 y/o in me and I take 100% full responsibility for this date and only blame myself for making a series of the most idiotic decisions I think I have ever made before.

Our first date was at my apartment and he ended up staying over and it ended up getting pretty nsfw. I am a virgin & did not want to have sex, and he was really sweet and didn’t try to take things farther than I was okay with, which was really nice. The whole thing was really new and weird for me, but whatever. A few days later, he asks me to go on a trip to Louisiana with him (he and his friends were going to sports bet). He mentioned that he’d “take care of me” and that “I wouldn’t be paying for anything”. I kept insisting that I didn’t want to ruin the boys trip (and I also barely knew him so I was on the fence) but he ended up convincing me, and I agreed to go.

He came over the night before and we were going to order food delivery. He suggested we split the cost of it? I found this weird because of the way he’s previously mentioned he’s going to give me the princess treatment. I also don’t like splitting tips bc it feels really impersonal, and I really was interested in this guy so far (I’d much rather just take turns and not keep track of splitting and stuff). I offered to pay for the whole thing, besides he said he’d cover the trip tomorrow (I assumed would include lunch, dinner, maybe some blackjack or something???)

We stop at a Buckee’s for breakfast. I bought my own burrito and water while he stayed in the car and asked if he wanted anything (he said no). I came back and he ate half of my burrito (that I paid for). We got to the casino and he and his 2 friends went to go sports bet and he said something along the lines of “Oh shit, I forgot to bring cash”. I awkwardly suggested withdrawing some from one of the 600 nearby ATM’s in the casino. He complained that the withdrawal fee was super expensive probably. He asked me if I brought any cash and I was super, super uncomfortable and said that I only have $50 and it’s my emergency cash. He begged me for it and said he would zelle me so being the anxious person I am, I agreed and gave it to him.

He ended up asking one of his friends if he’d go 25-25 (on my 50) on the sports bet with him lol… He did not zelle me. Hours later, they actually ended up winning that bet for $300. They split $150 each and I expected him to immediately give me my $50 back. Nope. He and his friend pocket $150 and pretend I’m not even there.

After the games are over, he proceeds to go play blackjack with the money he just won. I don’t even play because I don’t have any cash and at that point, I am super anxious and scared and uncomfortable being in a city with a bunch of strangers who basically just stole my money. He loses all of the money he wins playing blackjack.

BTW- we did not have lunch. They were too busy watching the sports games and I was feeling nauseous and sick for hours (at one point I literally went upstairs to an empty floor and cried and took medicine and tried to calm down because I was freaking out and having a panic attack because I wanted to go home so bad)

But- we did have dinner. I’m such a lucky girl, he treated me to whataburger after this shit show of a day. <3 (and proceeded to inhale all of my french fries after not ordering food himself). I went back and bought extra fries with my card. Finally, when it was just him and I alone, I came up with the courage to ask him to zelle me my $50 and he said he’d give it to me when he got paid at the end of the week