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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/PersephoneGraves on 2023-10-06 23:55:38.
I started talking with guy who talked about wanting a long term relationship and marriage and all that. He lives about 2 hours from me, and he’s been talking about coming over to my apartment aaand like staying the night and stuff.
For me, I’m not comfortable having a guy over I barely knew even if he seems really great because I want to be safe, and I thought this was something most women weren’t comfortable doing when it comes to dating?
Anyway, I told him how I’d normally go on a couple of dates or so before feeling comfortable having a man over. Since he’s pretty far, I asked if we can do more FaceTime dates since it’s kind of like meeting in person. He said that was ok, but then I was worried he was not happy with me, but he didn’t say anything otherwise.
it’s 3 pm now, and I haven’t heard anything from him. We’ve been texting a lot each day and so it’s very unusual. He could be very busy, but a part of me worries he was lying to me all this time and just wanted to hook up with me rather than form a close relationship.
Was my request reasonable? And do you think I should just wait to hear back from him? Thanks. ☹️