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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Sea-Seaweed4930 on 2023-10-05 21:48:53.
This is for my girlies who have seen the recent trend about women claiming to be “girls’ girls.” If you don’t know what that is, I urge you to look it up on TikTok and watch a few videos about it, because if you don’t have context then this won’t make sense.
So the definition of the term is fine. Girls uplifting other girls, I get it. From this alone I identify as one. But I swear there are mean girls who are labeling themselves with the word when they’re total assholes. It changes the whole meaning of the term.
For example (and I promise it is only one of a billion), I just saw a tiktok with the caption “me five minutes after saying I’m a girls’ girl:” and it’s her lip syncing a sound of a girl gossiping and talking sh*t about others. I was flabbergasted, so I looked at the comments.
“I’m only a girls’ girl to other girls’ girls” “you don’t have to like every girl to be a girls’ girl c:” “Some other girls just need to be brought down to earth 😌” “I’m a girls’ girl if a girl is in trouble, needs help, or asks me a question. But some of y’all are just…🫠” “Girls have treated me horribly so I’m proud to be a hater” “It’s called being a hater and I’m one too” (All direct quotes)
Is anyone else not feeling the energy?? Are these girls not just mean girls? I’m not sure how to explain it, but it’s like these girls have friends they like and are only selectively nice to them…they all admit that if they don’t like you they’ll be a hater. Basically, a mean girl.
It’s like they make their whole personality about their relationships with other females, whether it’s good or bad. And the problem is that their definition of nice is giving you a pad when you need one.
Please, please tell me I’m not alone. I’ve been feeling like this for a long time but couldn’t articulate it. I probably didn’t articulate it well here either.