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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Cellar_Door_789 on 2023-10-02 12:56:42.


One time I was hanging out with a male acquaintance and he invited me to go out for drinks later in the evening with some of his friends. I go with him to an apartment for the pregame and it turns out a guy who had a very open crush on me for years, who I had always turned down, lived there. There were a lot of people at the pregame that came to the bar with us. The guy who had the crush began acting if I was there for him. I had to eventually set a boundary because he WOULD NOT STOP TOUCHING ME. When I put up the boundary he threw a tantrum, like full blown tantrum, thrashing, yelling and cursing my name in the bathroom. And people having to come up to me to reassure me that I was safe and that he wouldn’t touch me again.

And the kicker! Something eventually developed between me and the guy who invited me. Like this tantrum dude saw me show up WITH ANOTHER MAN and thought ‘bet, she’s here for me.’ I’m speechless.