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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/spongelated821 on 2023-10-01 16:00:02.
Ok, heres a little backstory, my gf (18F) and I (18M) have been dating for a good 4-5 months, but have been close friends for our whole lives almost. Now to my issue at hand, she has this friend who is supposedly gay but has said multiple times that he does not know what he is and is genuinely confused about his sexuality (i know this information because i know him personally but we’re not really friends). She is very close with him, and when we are together sometimes i get ignored and they spend time together without counting me in, they get into little playflights even in front of me and while i have said countless times that she has to set boundaries and she would always say she would but the next day she would go back to normal. A few days ago, they took it a step too far and to get to the point i told her she either cuts him off completely or i am done with her. With much hesitation she cut him off but keeps saying my solution is stupid and wrong and it doesn’t make sense to cut someone off like that and ignore his existence. I wrote this because i am starting to think i am in the wrong but at the same time i think i have the right to do this 100%. Thoughts?