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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/WillingnessFrosty216 on 2023-10-01 11:30:59.
My ex boyfriend and I have a 3 year old daughter together and we were co parenting really well until he got with his girlfriend. At first everything was fine but he started to pick her up and see her less and less. Now at first I was like “fuck him, i don’t need him” but my daughter used to cry for this man so I just flat out asked what was up.
I feel like he basically told me it was because of his girlfriend only because it was a lot of “she” in his excuses. It just really bothered me because why would you have anything against a baby? AND YOU HAVE CHILDREN! I just instantly went into investigation mode and found out she’s a felon… and doesn’t have custody of her own kids.
I just don’t feel comfortable with this girl around my daughter so I told my ex everything I found out about her and how I don’t want this lady around my child, now they’re mad at me??? Am I wrong for doing a background check on someone that’s going to be around my child? or is she just mad that she’s caught?