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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/OlXThrowaway74 on 2023-09-25 17:36:57.
My 23F and my friend 26F lets call her sarah she has medical issues, hypothyroidism and PCOS to be specific and as a result she’s morbidly obese and has really bad acne so.
Today we were on girls night and the topic of boyfriends popped up and everyone in our group has a boyfriend except sarah.
So sarah started complaining about being lonely and her inability to find a partner and i asked her what are her standards in a guy?
She said i want him rich,handsome,tall and smart literally all the best qualities that only you can find in movies.
I told her girl you’re not a 10 and probably has not much to offer yet you’re looking for a guy all of those? You’re basically setting yourself for failure you need to find someone who is normal.
Then she said that she’s feeling unwell and wants to go home, when she left a mutual friend told me i’m an AH for being this harsh however i think i was just being helpful to her.